How to Reverse Relationship Damage

Everyone goes through a breakup at one point in their life, but that doesn’t make your situation any easier, does it?

Every song reminds you of that person, every experience is less meaningful without them, and every fiber of your being craves for them to come back.

You are not alone, and you are certainly not hopeless, regardless of how dire your situation looks right now. It is totally possible for you to get your ex back, even if you feel helpless.

However, your emotions will tell you to do the WRONG things.

To get your ex back, you need to think counter-intuitive to your emotions, because your emotions will direct you to do the following:

- Beg For Forgiveness
- Text Message Terrorize
- Make Foolish Promises
- Make You Believe That It’s Your Fault
- Drive The Other Person Away
- Beat Yourself Up

These gut reactions are the exact opposite of what it takes to get your ex back, and you should focus instead of creating desire in the other person. Begging for forgiveness does not create desire, nor does making foolish promises that are temporary. These attempts make you look desperate and drive the other person away, often into the arms of someone else.

On the other hand, if you arouse the other person’s desire, then you not only erase the mistakes that have been made, but you completely reverse your situation and cause the other person to begin to pursue you.

Creating desire in the other person is not difficult to do, but you must ignore the desire to chase after the other person. Instead, you must use a bit of powerful psychology (please, only use it for good!) that causes the other person to view you as having it together. This transfers the feeling of “missing someone” to the other party, causing them to desire you again.

The longer you push the other person away with text message terrorism, late night phone calls, and begging, the harder the situation becomes, but creating desire will erase most of the harm that has been done.

The most powerful way to begin this process is to write a hand written letter that, instead of begging the person to come back, states that you are at peace with the breakup. Watch this video to see how to write the letter.